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Life is Not a Competition



A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms.” — Zen Shin.

Don’t get me wrong, competition is not a bad thing. Competition is actually healthy. It encourages hard work, productivity, and pushes people to improve. A little competitiveness at school, in sports, and at work helps to boost our inner drive to work hard and try our best.

However, we all know those people that are so competitive, they are annoying to be around. They are so competitive at everything, they are not usually happy unless they are the winner. Maybe you are a competitive person and can relate to this.

Life is not a competition, it’s a journey.

Life is not supposed to be a competition. Just like the flower, it does not try to compete against the flower that is planted next to it, it just blooms and becomes a thing of beauty. When you take a journey, you think of your progress and the journey itself. Don’t concentrate on the end results only. Enjoy the daily progress and the encounters along the way. Instead of tearing down, try lifting others up. Encourage others on their journey. Be like the flower, bloom and show your beauty.

“The only person you should try to be better than, is the person you were yesterday.” ~Matty Mullins

Each day, seek different ways to be a support or encouragement to others. It doesn’t make you weak. takes you a stronger person. Then, at that time when you need something, you will see how many others will be there for you.

“I might not be that great, but I am better than I was yesterday and I’m picking up momentum.” — A.k.Finch

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